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Sometimes it can feel like everything in this world is coming against you. From fights with friends to unsuccessful jobs, or even things you can’t do anything about. The reason why I am writing this article is because I recently had some issues that could have made me cry, but somehow I managed to still stay on the bright side. For the ones who follow me on Snapchat (add me if you haven’t yet @floortjeloves), might already know what I am talking about. Starting with by the end of April when I found out that my Credit Card was used by someone else, who spend a fortune on it. You can imagine I was in a deep shock when I found out. Same as yesterday night, when I got out of the train who had a 40 minute delay, I got by my bike which wasn’t complete anymore since my saddle was stolen…

So after some really hard *&^(@&!)&*))!#^#&^ I took a deep breath and walked my bike home, to have a drink with a new friend afterwards. It turned out that I really had a great evening and totally forgot about my bike or my Credit Card. Today I bought a new (and this time an inexpensive) saddle and also my Credit Card insurance solved the problem for me. Of course I could have stayed at home, crying about why someone would do this to me, but this absolutely wouldn’t bring me anything except for some puffy eyes – which isn’t a good thing.

Coming to my point on how to stay on the bright side. When something negative happens in your life, it might sound hard, but do your best to make something positive out of it. My favorite way is to be surrounded by nice people, perhaps with a good glass of wine and some cheese ;). That’s why my life quote is definitely ‘get up, dress up and never give up’. When I heard it for the first time I immediately knew that this is how we all should live. Give the best in life, stay positive and good things will come your way, like karma. Besides the friends and the wine, fashion is also a real therapy for me, or cuddling with my baby dog. Even these small moments can change everything. What do you do to stay happy and positive when something negative happens? Would love to read your tips!

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floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

floortjeloves, bright side, asos, flared, flare, flared trousers, choies, white shirt, fien, fringe, fringes, fringed jacket, suede jacket, massimo dutti, zara, snake print, snake booties

I was wearing:

Jacket: Asos

Top: Choies

Trousers: Autumn Cashmere

Boots: Zara, more snake

Bag: Massimo Dutti, similar here

Earrings: Louis Vuitton

Bracelets: BulgariHèrmesMonica Vinader and ThePeachBox

Make-Up:

Lips: Sisley Phyto-Lip Twist No. 11

Nails: Gucci No. 040

Comments (31)

  • Missy May . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    This is a great post and you’re so right. Sometimes we can’t control things, so we might as well deal with it and move on. I believe sometimes things don’t go well for the good at the end. We just have to be patient and pray God how us the way.
    You look amazing. Beautiful smile! 🙂

    missymayification.blogspot.co.uk

  • Natali . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    They say that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it! Choosing to look on these kind of situations with positive attitude and rather fixing what you can fix than crying over something you have no power to change makes a big difference on how certain events/ things will leave a trace in your life.
    Love your bag, it is so unique and such a great addition to this outfit. 🙂

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  • Stephanie . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    Soo sorry all that happened to you!! 🙁 you look amazing by the way. Love the fringe jacket and your dog is soooo cute!

  • Diana . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    Fabulous photos!
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  • jlal . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    Sorry for your problems
    Live is too hard to deal
    Keep smiling
    Always be positive
    Look so pretty

  • Madame Ostrich . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    Oh man, I am so sorry to hear this Floortje! I had the same thing happen in April– someone somehow got ahold of my card number and was spending thousands of dollars at random gas stations in Florida! Thank god we live in this time and age where we can easily prove that it was someone else who was using our card. Glad to hear you pulled out okay!

    XxMO
    http://www.madame-ostrich.com

  • Jules . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    Beautiful outfit, love your bag!! 🙂

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  • Kay . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    So sorry to hear about what happened to you, hun. 🙁 <3 That must have been very stressful! Hopefully things will get sorted out soon. <3 Also, I admire your outlook on life! It made me think of one of my fav quotes – 'Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day'. 🙂

    Kay
    http://shoesandglitter.com

  • Agnes . May 10, 2016 . Reply

    In love with those pants!

    Agnes x

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  • Pinja . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    Oh no, sounds terrible! Fortunately everything turned out ok eventually 🙂 That’s how it usually goes anyway, and that’s also how I stay positive when facing negative situations! I know things will ultimately turn out the way they’re supposed to and perhaps something better is coming my way, so I just try to give it time and meanwhile spend time with my friends and drink some wine haha 😉

  • Cindy . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    You looks so beautiful.

  • Mary . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    You have styled this outfit perfectly with that purse and fringe jacket! I really love how fresh this outfit looks!

    Sorry to hear of your bad luck lately, but you stayed calm and it got solved!

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    Love, Mary

  • Bianca . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    I adore this fringed jacket!! Great look for a nice day in Amsterdam. 🙂 Always stay on the bright side! xx

    Bianca x
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  • Leta . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    So sorry to hear that all these things have been happening to you! I am so happy that you decided to turn to the bright side. I always try to do the same and overlook the bad. Completely agree with everything you said and I hope that nothing bad like this will happen to you again 🙂 x

    -Leta | The Nerdy Me

  • LindaLibraLoca . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    I usually tell my husband about it, who makes fun of it (and me being so upset) and end up laughing.

    Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking

  • Maria | Looking Glass . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    Amazing fringe jacket! So sorry to hear about those negative things but you’re right about staying positive, things usually end up working out in the end xx

  • Lindsey Elyse . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    What a great post! I’m glad that in the end everything worked out for you – even though those two events are extremely crappy! I agree with you that there is no use to cry about something that happened when you may or may not have any way to fix it yourself! As long as your well-being is safe then we can move on past these things 🙂
    **That being said – how scary to have your credit card information being stolen and used! I’d be sooo upset!**

    Lindsey Elyse | lindseyginge

  • Kasie Chelanne . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    I’m so sorry you’ve had such a string of unfortunate things happening! It’s so hard to understand how some people in this world can be so dishonest and cruel. It’s so wonderful you’re able to focus on the positive and move forward from these things. You’re right, sitting at home crying never does any good! There are few things wine, friends and a fabulous fringe jacket like yours can’t fix!

  • Ivana . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    Such s great look, love fringes,that bag is so beautiful xoxo

    http://www.theninebyivana.blogspot.com

  • Face to Curls . May 11, 2016 . Reply

    So sorry all those things happened to you but it’s so great of you to keep positive and bright! I’m having a crappy day and week so far and I was really bummed but I started thinking about the positives and trying to not let things bring me down and then I read your post so thank you for sharing. It just shows that many of us are going through things and we just have to stay on the bright side. You look great by the way and so happy! x

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  • Rachel Holliday . May 12, 2016 . Reply

    It’s so awful that your credit card got stolen hun- Im glad the bank sorted it out for you. You look so beautiful as always- this fringe jacket is perfection

    Rachel xx
    http://www.thedailyluxe.net

  • Alice . May 12, 2016 . Reply

    Your pictures are absolutely wonderful! Love that fringe jacket, it’s beyond gorgeous!
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  • Lulle . May 12, 2016 . Reply

    OMG your dog is adorable!
    When something negative happens I try not to dwell on it, but it can be hard sometimes. Good company and good wine definitely help 😉

    Beaumiroir

  • Nora Gouma . May 12, 2016 . Reply

    Wow, that’s absolutely stunning outfit, I love it, love your cute dog as well, thank you for sharing, you look gorgeous!!!

    xxx

    http://www.modelonamission.com

  • Kathleen C. Ray . May 13, 2016 . Reply

    Amazing photography, love your style!

  • Nazlıgül . May 13, 2016 . Reply

    OMG! I cannot believe that you were going through such a shocking case! It was like when my bag was stolen during my Erasmus in a whole different country only after 2 weeks! But keep smiling girl, because it looks gorgeous on you.
    Kisses,
    Nazlıgül | on my own way

  • Parie . May 13, 2016 . Reply

    Stunning!

    Parie x
    classandglitter.com

  • Fashionelja . May 14, 2016 . Reply

    Dear delight <3 You look great 🙂

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