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WHY YOU SHOULDN’T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF

May 26, 2016.Floortje.0 Likes.27 Comments

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When it comes to human to human we are in a natural way nice to one another. Generally speaking, you can be happy for someone else who just archived his of her goal. But why can we be happy for someone else if we can be so dissatisfied to ourselves? Why made god – or whoever put us on earth – us this critical when it comes to self-acceptance? Especially in the world we live in nowadays, were everybody suffers with FOMO,  I think we are way too hard for the personal me that’s inside us. I mean, when was the last time you gave yourself a pat on the shoulder because you did good at work or relation wise? No, instead of doing that we often think we might have done it better next time because of our insecurities. Time to end this right now.

Through the years of blogging I have already learned so much about myself. About my passion, but also what I am really good at: writing stories and sharing my love for fashion and anything else that’s around it. I can call myself one of those lucky girls that does all her best to make her business out of her blog. Yet, I sometimes feel so unsatisfied with the way things go. Why am I not at 100K yet? And while putting out my frustration to my friends they wake me up with things I already got. The 10K which we recently hit which I am actually more than proud of. Imagine putting all those people on a square, you can literally walk on their heads. So when we hit the 10K on Instagram I not only gave myself a pat on both my shoulders, but I also did a little dance of happiness while writing down new goals for the other six months that has left of 2016.

But now my point, I actually hoped for this 10K much earlier since my goal was before the end of 2015. When this didn’t succeed – even though we were already so close – I first was so disappointed in myself, when after that I realized this obsession doesn’t made me feel happy anymore. Why not being less hard for myself and will just see where it will end? Not that I say that you shouldn’t set goals, because I think you really should, but don’t be too hard on yourself. Be grateful for the things you already have, don’t be said about not having that bikini body this summer and just eat that pasta if it makes you happy (at least that’s what I am gonna do right now). Give yourself an inner hug now and then, because loving yourself is the most beautiful gift there is.

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floortjeloves, why you shouldnt be so hard on yourself, jumpsuit, dungarees, joop, flowers, oh by kopenhagen fur, maison valentino, valentino, bag, wedges, zara, flared sleeves, flared

floortjeloves, why you shouldnt be so hard on yourself, jumpsuit, dungarees, joop, flowers, oh by kopenhagen fur, maison valentino, valentino, bag, wedges, zara, flared sleeves, flared

floortjeloves, why you shouldnt be so hard on yourself, jumpsuit, dungarees, joop, flowers, oh by kopenhagen fur, maison valentino, valentino, bag, wedges, zara, flared sleeves, flared

floortjeloves, why you shouldnt be so hard on yourself, jumpsuit, dungarees, joop, flowers, oh by kopenhagen fur, maison valentino, valentino, bag, wedges, zara, flared sleeves, flared

I was wearing:

Dungaree: JOOP – vintage, similar here

Shirt: Zara, more flare sleeves

Wedges: From Italy, but something a like

Belt: World Market, similar

Bag: Maison Valentino

Keychain: OH by Kopenhagen Fur

Earrings: DIY, inspired by

Make-Up:

Lips: Sisley Phyto-Lip Twist No. 11

Nails: Caption ‘Yeah, what she said’

Comments (27)

  • alice . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    This post was so comforting to read, and so true! That jumpsuit is so gorgeous layered over the bell sleeve top, love this look!

    xo, alice / T Y P E N U

  • The Fashion Folks . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    Such a chic outfit, love how you’ve matched the colors: looks so good! Xx

    http://www.thefashionfolks.com

  • THE AVANTGUARDIAN . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    Don’t be hard on yourself because you are doing an amazing job already! There are bloggers/instagrammers who gain followers in other ways and you are doing it by just being yourself so kudos to that!
    <3
    http://www.theavantguardian.com

  • Pinja . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    I know exactly what you mean! I used to be so upset with not getting a lot of followers/views/comments/whatever, but now I’m just doing things because I actually enjoy them and not putting pressure on myself 🙂

  • Natali . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    First of all, you look absolutely stunning and so original in this outfit! Secondly, congratulations to you on hitting 10K, in our business those kind of victories do deserve a little happy dance! And finally, you are more than the number and you know that you’re much more worth than 10 K or 100 K or whatever. Setting goals yes, giving yourself a pat on the shoulder yes, but to only relate to yourself and your business in matter of numbers, a big no! 🙂

    http://lartoffashion.com

  • Renard Moreau . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    [ Smiles ] Elegant-looking!

    You have got style!

  • Emmy . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    A lovely inspiring post:) Congrats on reaching your follower goal!

  • Simera . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    Such a fabulous outfit. It’s always great to set goals but not be too hard on oneself.
    BEAUTETUDE

  • Desirèe . May 26, 2016 . Reply

    very nice look!

    http://www.thefashionprincess.it/

  • Joti . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    What a lovely outfit. Great post. We definitely need to celebrate our own successes!

    http://www.stylebymemory.com

  • Leta . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    I love this post! We surely should give ourselves some slack. We want so much, especially us, bloggers, but we fail to see that we achieved already. Also, you look very stunning! x

    The Nerdy Me

  • Violette . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    So true! Love your little bag by the way!

    http://violettedaily.com

  • cvetybaby . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    Such a classy and chic look! You have an amazing sense of style! Gorgeous photography!
    xx
    cvetybaby.com

  • Emma . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    Such a great and inspiring post! lovely to read.
    And the outfit is so gorgeous.

    http://tealattewithstyle.com/

  • Ashon . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    Totally enjoy reading your post! It’s very true to accept and appreciate what we have to be happy in this world. Though it’s hard, I’m trying on it! Thanks for sharing! And you look gorgeous as always, love how you match your dungaree with a bell sleeved top.

    Kisses Ashon
    http://ashonfashionary.com/cut-out-shoulder-white-dress/

  • TheFemall . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    wow so nice!! Thanks for sharing with us.

  • Jules . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    You’re so beautiful in these photos, stunning outfit!! 🙂

    http://julesonthemoon.blogspot.it/

  • Lenya . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    Such an effortless chic look! Great post. Goals are important but they have to be reasonable imho, otherwise you’ll end up being disappointed or being too hard on yourself. Happy Friday, girl.
    xox
    Lenya
    FashionDreams&Lifestyle

  • Lux G. . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    A resounding yes! We need to be kinder to ourselves.
    Lovely outfit. And I like the shots. Need to learn to do these to my photos. 🙂

  • Adriana R. . May 27, 2016 . Reply

    So gorgeous! 🙂

  • Dominique . May 28, 2016 . Reply

    Such a thought provoking post! Loving your bag and the fluffy charm xx

    http://www.thatnewdress.com

  • Yasmin . May 28, 2016 . Reply

    You look so cute in these pics! Love the little fur ball too. You should definitely be proud of your accomplishments. 10k is a huge achievement!

    xx Yasmin
    http://banglesandbungalows.com

  • Xin . May 28, 2016 . Reply

    Love this layering, super cute!

    xx
    Xin

    http://xincerely.blogspot.com

  • Gabrielle . May 28, 2016 . Reply

    Congratulations on reaching 10K on Instagram, that’s brilliant! I love the sentiments in this post, you’ve made some really good points – nothing is gained from being too tough on ourselves 🙂 Inner hugs, all around!

    aglassofice.com
    x

  • Caro . May 29, 2016 . Reply

    I have the same hippie style shirt from Zara 😉 you look beautiful! <3

    http://www.redchillilounge.com

  • Georgia Hope . May 29, 2016 . Reply

    Love this post, completely agree! And well done on the 10k, thats amazing! xx
    http://www.chasingbelle23.blogspot.co.uk

  • Anaivilo . May 31, 2016 . Reply

    Gosh youare so right! I try to tell myself not to be so self critical and harsh, but I am still working on it and I always want to improve.
    These photos are so beautiful, I love the outfit and you have a very lovely smile! 🙂

    http://thewonderfashion.blogspot.com

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